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Why Am I Here?

June 25th, 2010 by Michael Feil

Today I want to truly write a post from the heart. I have a ton of friends that I interact with on my blog and the social media sites that I frequent and I love the interaction that I have with every one of you. There is a lot of diversity and back grounds out there and I enjoy reading about you all and seeing where you really come from.

So why am I here? Good question. Actually it’s a question I have been asking myself for a while. Hey, I teach to be authentic with your posts and to be real, so I’m just being real. Many of you know that I’m a Christian and first and foremost I am here to serve God and honor Him.

1 Peter 5:2-3
2Just as shepherds watch over their sheep, you must watch over everyone God has placed in your care. Do it willingly in order to please God, and not simply because you think you must. Let it be something you want to do, instead of something you do merely to make money. 3Don’t be bossy to those people who are in your care, but set an example for them.

I honor God by helping people. It may be Biblically related it may not. I may help someone understand the real power of the cross or I may help someone understand the power of social media marketing. But in either case I’m doing it with a servant heart. I’m doing it because I like and want to help people. I want to make a difference in this world.

I’m here to be the best husband to my wife and father to my girls that I can possibly be. God has blessed me with a great family and being self employed I now have the luxury to even be more attentive to them than I did when I was working in Corporate America (except when we are doing a product launch!).

I’m here to be an educator of social media marketing and how to make money online. I love to do it and I enjoy doing it. I love making the connections, interacting with people online, and sharing the principles that have made me successful.

So here’s what I’m dealing with right now. What is my current call in ministry? Ministry is a huge part of my life. The Bible tells us to go out and share what God has done in our lives.

Matthew 28:19-20 19Go to the people of all nations and make them my disciples. Baptize them in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, 20and teach them to do everything I have told you. I will be with you always, even until the end of the world.

Believe me, I have done a lot when it comes to ministry. I have started up ministries from scratch, I helped plant a church, I have lead Sunday school, I have preached to my congregation, I have preached to youth, I have organized youth camps, I have volunteered my time for various ministries, etc.

I have seen some amazing miracles come from people fully turning their lives over to God and understanding that they can’t do it on their own. There have been miracles in my life that have happened because I know God’s hand was on me and guiding me. There have been struggles I have been gone through that I the outcome was hopeless and I tried everything I could to fix the problem or issue on my own and failed miserably, but when I went to God’s Word and finally asked for His help the problems were fixed and the outcomes were positive.

Romans 8:28
28We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God—those whom he has called according to his plan.

My dilemma is what is my real calling? Why am I really here? I know I have one! I thought my calling was this one certain ministry but it has been one frustration after another and there are some battle scars that I have with that ministry.

There is another ministry that I am also involved with that I enjoy doing and I know I’m making a difference in those people’s lives.

So I need to spend some time deep in prayer seeking God to see what he wants me to do…bow out of the first one and just focus on the second or fight through both of them.

So why am I telling you all of this? Actually, I don’t know! This has been on my heart for a while and I just needed to express this. Maybe this post will somehow put some things into perspective for you, or maybe this post will just help me think things through better, but either or I know God is in control and whatever the outcome is I’m going to serve Him to the best of my ability.

My life does have a purpose and I am so happy I serve a living God that cares for me, has lifted me up when I needed him, has shared my joys, and knows everything about me.

Matthew 10:29-31
29-31″What’s the price of a pet canary? Some loose change, right? And God cares what happens to it even more than you do. He pays even greater attention to you, down to the last detail—even numbering the hairs on your head! So don’t be intimidated by all this bully talk. You’re worth more than a million canaries.

People ask me sometimes, “Mike, how do you know God is real?” You know because of the experiences you have with Him. You know because you see positive outcomes in situations that were so hopeless and so negative you can only know that it’s God that carried you through those situations. You know because there is a joy in your life that you just can’t explain. You know because you can feel His presence in your life. You know…because you just know. It’s hard to explain if you’re not a Christian. It’s like an extra sense or an extra feeling that you have. I guess that’s the most easiest way to explain it.

So how to end this post? Well, I’ve been thinking about that for the past 20 minutes! I guess what I’m going to do is like I said spend some time in prayer about my ministry calling and seek direction from God. If anyone has any good books they can suggest I would appreciate that too!

If you’re still reading this I hope my post has somehow helped you out as well. I am human, I am normal, and I do have struggles just like everyone else does. I just take my struggles to God trust in Him that He will work things out.

I do want to leave you with a video from one of my favorite bands, The David Crowder Band. I hope you enjoy this song as much as I enjoy it.

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UPDATE
After spending some time with God in prayer I have decided to stay in both ministries and go in a different direction with one of the ministries that I have been focusing on. I’m looking forward to the doors that are going to be open with this ministry and to see lives changed because of it!

I’m reading a great book now called In A Pit With A Lion On A Snowy Day. It’s about how to thrive and survive when opportunity roars. Many people like to run when they see “lions”…I like to chase ‘em and defeat ‘em!

It’s OK To Dream But…

February 9th, 2010 by Michael Feil

While we’re trying to build our business and live our dreams there is another life that we need to live and that is the present. Here is my perspective on how you need to focus on your business, build your dream but not lose site of the present.
 
 
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The Cycle Of Achievement (Pt. 4)

September 3rd, 2009 by Michael Feil

We have been talking about the Cycle of Achievement from the #1 best selling book Launching A Leadership

Cycle Of Achievement

Cycle Of Achievement

 

 

Revolution by Chris Brady and Orrin Woodward.  So far we have covered Goals and Game Plans, and today we are going to talk about what happens after we set our goals and have our game plans we need to do something or we will never reach our goals…and that is WORK!

 

 

According to Brady and Woodward when applied to a leader, the term working encompasses several categories.  I am only going to cover a few of them today.  You will need to get the book in order see all of the categories.

 

 

Working: Leading by Example

 

 

Abraham Lincoln said, “Example is not the main thing in influencing other people; it’s the only thing.”  Leaders must set the example.  Many seem to have the idea that a leader is someone with a position, or someone with the ability to talk a good game.  But a ture leader sets the example with his or her action on a daily basis, period.

 

 

If you are a network marketer you need to lead your community by example or else you’re not going to have a big community to lead.  You need to be doing or have done what you are teaching your community so they can see you are someone worthy of following.

 

 

Working:  Demonstrating a Strong Work Ethic

 

 

There are no shortcuts to success.  Leaders who search for a shortcut end up getting cut short.  Sometimes those in a position of leadership want to shirk the grunt work and instead tell others what to do, but that is not true leadership.  When a leader resorts to delegating because he is not willing to do it himself, he has reverted to managing instead of leading.  True leadership is being willing to live down in the trenches where the action is and do whatever is necessary.

 

 

Peter Drucker said, “No leader is worth his salt who won’t set up chairs.”  Don’t misunderstand what I am saying…a leader’s job is not to tackle the tasks and responsibilities of his subordinates.  A leader must simply be wiling to, as there is not job below the leader.

 

 

The strong work ethic demonstrated by he leader energizes the organization and propels everyone forward.

 

 

Working:  Taking Responsibility

 

 

Leaders take responsibility for their actions and for their decisions.  Leaders are not always right and don’t always make the right decisions.  Real leaders make decisions, and then they make those decisions right.

 

 

Al Kaltman says,  “The successful leader gets superior performance from ordinary people.”  That happens because the leader takes responsibility for those results.  A leader does not make excuses.  A leader does not place blame on others.  A leader does not evade duty.  Taking responsibility means holding oneself to a standard of results.

 

 

If leaders don’t like the outcomes, they make changes, taking full responsibility for implementing those changes.  If something goes wrong, they take he blame.  If something goes well, they share the credit.

 

 

There are a lot more working principles that are in the book but I think I will let your marinate on that for a while.  Working is the most important one in the Cycle of Achievement because you can have good goals, your can have a great game plan but if you don’t work all that is worthless.

 

 

So go out there today and work your game plan so you can reach your goals!  Let me know if I can help!

 

 

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Surprise Wedding: Yes, You Read That Right!

July 18th, 2009 by Michael Feil
Because I know most of you only through the internet I want you to fully know me; not just professionally but personally too. So here’s a little peak into my life. Although this happened a little over a year ago I want to share with you one of the best days of my life.

 

Well, Christina and I celebrated 10 years of marriage on 2/28/08. I am very happy with her, our children, and our plans for the future. One thing that Christina wished was that we had the wedding she always wanted when we first got married.  You know, the kind of wedding girls always dream about.  Unfortunately she didnt’ get that wedding because of some family situations and money, so she got a very small, immediate family only, wedding.

  

Well, I gave her a Surprise Wedding on our 10 Year Wedding Anniversary. This video is of me addressing the wedding attendees on what exactly I did and how I did it….

 

 

 

Here is what Christina saw when the limo pulled up to the same church we got married at 10 years ago.  The two little girls are our daughters.  It was awesome to have them in the wedding!

 

The Wedding Party

 

Here’s Christina’s reaction when the limo pulled up to the church. By the way, Christina is deaf so when I first talk to her I say, “I konw you didn’t get the wedding you wanted 10 years ago when first got marred so I wanted to give you the wedding you always wanted. Will you marry me again?”

 

 

 

So we had a formal wedding ceremony with 150 of our closest friends and family and then had a great reception at a very nice ball room a few miles away from the church. It was a great day and the best gift I could have given her for our anniversary. She is a great woman and deserved it!

 

The Happy Couple

The Happy Couple

 

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What is True Leadership?

June 28th, 2009 by Michael Feil

 Today I want to touch on what is leadership. 

 

Let’s start off with a good definition of leadership from John Maxwell who says, “Leadership is influence – nothing more, nothing less.  People have so many misconceptions about leadership.  When they hear that someone has an impressive title or an assigned leadership position, they assume that he is a leader.  Sometimes that’s true.  But titles don’t have much value when it comes to leading.  True leadership cannot be awarded, appointed, or assigned.  It comes only from influence, and that can’t be mandated.  It must be earned.”

 

So basically leadership is the influence of others in a productive, vision-driven direction and is done through the example, conviction, and character of the leader. 

 

Your boss (if you have one) may think he is a leader but he is really a manager.  Why?  Because he has no influence.  Yeah, he may tell people what to do and people may be scared of him, but that is not leading.  That is poor management! 

 

True leaders get people to do what they need to do by influencing them to do it by setting an example themselves, showing character, integrity, and respect for the people they influence. 

 

Here is an example, suppose you are in a sales position and your numbers aren’t up to par this month and your boss sits you down in his office and says, “You need to bring up your numbers because if you don’t you will know what’s going to happen!  We can’t afford to have underperformers here at this company!  Now go get me some coffee!”

 

That is an example of a lousy manager with very poor leadership skills.  If your boss was a true leader he would say something like, ‘I see that your numbers have dipped this month.  What’s going on out in the sales field?  Have you tried doing this ….?  You’re one of our best sales reps and I know and trust you can bring your numbers up by the end of the month.  What can I do to help you out?  Do you think it would be beneficial for me to go on some calls with you?  Let’s put together a plan for the rest of this month and see how we can get your numbers up to where they need to be.”

 

Big difference!  You see in the first example the boss is flexing his POWER, showing his CONTROL, and is asking to be SERVED. 

 

While the second example the boss is GIVING POWER (EMPOWERING) by saying you can do this.  He is HELPING OTHERS FIX PROBLEMS AND MOVE FORWARD by strategizing with you to see how you can bring up your numbers.  Finally, he is SERVING you by asking if he can help you in any way and seeing if he can go out with you into the field. 

 

What it comes basically comes down to is communication and relationships.  Leaders know how to communicate and they know how to establish strong relationships that will be a win / win situation.  Just remember leaders empower, help others fix problems and move forward, and serve others.  I just want to encourage you to think of how you can use these 3 important principles in your own life whether it’s at work or at home. 

 

The leadership training system that I am teach stresses on the two things that I mentioned above….communication and relationships.

 

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The Three Foundational Qualities Of A Leader

June 27th, 2009 by Michael Feil

Today I wantto talk about the Three Foundational Qualities of a Leader taken from the #1 Best Selling book on leadership, Launching A Leadership Revolution by Chris Brady and Orrin Woodward.
Here they are:

 

- Hungry

 
- Hone-able

 
- Honest

 
All leaders have to have these three qualities. They are very important for someone to reach the leadership status. Why? Well, let’s review them real quick…

 
Foundation Quality Number One – Hungry

 
Let’s look a hunger in general. Have you ever watched the news and they were doing a story on people that live in 3rd world countries who were starving and you see this hunger relief truck backing up to a crowd of these starving people? What happens when one of the relief workers opens up the back of the truck and starts throwing sacks of rice out to the people? The crowd goes crazy! They start pushing, people are getting knocked down, and sometimes fights break out? Why? Because these people are hungry and will do anything it takes to get food in them and totheir families.

 

As leaders we need to have that same hunger burning inside of us. We need to think of books, leadership audio CDs, and associating with the right people as the food that will satisfy our hunger. We need to believe in ourselves that once we get the right information in our heads we will have the power to make our lives and our family’s lives better. That, my friends, is the kind of hunger I am talking about!
You need to find out what is your motivation. There are three levels of motivation that I want to share:

 

 

Material Success

 
This is financial independence and material things. When we position ourselves as a leader we have the opportunityto make a lot of money. Many people get into network marketing, internet marketing, start their own business, investing, etc. because they want material success. They want to pay off their debt, they want to buy a new car, they want to buy a vacation home, they want to travel more, they want a Rolex, etc. So this is the first level of motivation. It’s wanting better things for yourself andyour family.

 
Recognition and Respect

 

Most people crave the recognition that others provide; apart of human nature is a deep need to be noticed and appreciated by others. It is not secret that everyone needs encouragement. For that reason, recognition by others is another healthy source of motivation.

 
Some people love to get rewards from their job, while others like to hear that they are doing a great job from their mentors. These and other forms of recognition canand should be used as motivations for performance.

 
Many people are motivated to obtain the respect of amentor, parent, teacher, boss, or spouse. Yearning for respect can be a strong motivator. So find those whom you admire, who are in a position in life you desire to be in, who are living their lives in a manner you wish to emulate, and strive to obtain their respect for what you are doing and accomplishing.

 
Purpose, Destiny, Legacy

 
The motivation factors that we have talked about so far are all great, but purpose takes us our of the realm of living only for ourselves and our own selfish desires, and onto a higher plane. Purpose involves sacrifice for the greater good, contribution for making a bigger difference, and energies directed at a long term view.

 

Destiny takes purpose further, comprehending the spiritual component. Destiny says that we were created, created for a purpose, and the unique abilities and opportunities that we find in our lives are God-given. Who you are, where you live, the talents you were born with, the opportunities that have and will come your way, are all part of a bigger picture, a picture into which you were painted to fulfill apart that only you can fulfill.

 
Legacy results from understanding our purpose in the bigger picture of our destiny and living it to its fullest. What we have and what we are given are not as important as what we contribute and what we leave behind. As one famous quote says, “My life is my message.”

 
Foundation Quality Number Two – Hone-able

 

Next we need to be hone-able which is another word for teachable. Leaders approach situation and challenges with a learner’s mind-set, that is, as a student and not as acritic. You have to come with an open mind and ready to learn. Everyone is not on the same plane so there are going to be people that have some leadership experience and know some principles, while others are brand new and want to get out of where they currently are.

 

 

So knowing that you haven’t “arrived” (HINT: No one ever arrives! We all can strive to do better that what weare currently doing now) and knowing that you want to improve will help you become a leader much faster than someone that constantly questions everything and is tough to work with. Leaders must approach learning with a positive, curious inquisitiveness, and never allow their responsibilities or setbacks to sour their dispositions.

 
Foundation Quality Number Three – Honorable

 
Author Jeff O’Leary, in The Centurion Principles, writes,”Honor, encompasses the virtues of integrity and honesty, self-denial, loyalty, and a servant’s humility to those in authority above as well as a just and merciful heart to those below.” In fact, honor is the force that holds a leader’s hunger in check. Without honor, hunger runs rampant and ultimately serves only selfish interests. Honor is the component that makes hunger productive for the leader’s fellow man.

 
This concept of honor is so important to a leader because people will follow a leader only as far as they feel they can trust him. People will not follow a leader they can’t trust.

 

He’s an example, if you work for a boss and your boss is coming into work late, going off for very long lunches, and getting caught in lies I am sure that you and your co-workers are not going to respect, follow, or trust him or her. But if your boss is honoring you with his or her actions, you will honor him or her by giving the respect he deserves.

 

 

Honor is, I believe, the most important of all three. The reason I believe this is because in order for the hunger and teaching to begin you need to get yourself right first. It has been said, “The internal victories precede the external victories.” Having honor means you are a standup person, you’re dependable, and people can trust you.

 
I would like to challenge you to do is to really think if you have the three foundational qualities that a leader needs to have in order to become an effective leader and what your motivating factor(s) are. And if you don’t have these three qualities sit down and write out a plan on what steps you need to take in order for you to get there becuase once start thinking with this kind of mindset you will see positive changes in your personal life and professional life.

 
Enjoy your day!

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Today I want to give you an acrostic of the word LEAD

June 27th, 2009 by Michael Feil

In order for you to be successful with your home based business you will need to be a leader. So today let’s break the word LEAD down into an acrostic that help us see more of what really is a leader.

 

L – Leaders are LEARNERS. In order for you to get better at what you do whether its sports or making money you need to learn how to do it right. With the leadership development system that I teach, people are constantly learning by reading books from some of the great authors that promote leadership such as Robert Kiyosaki, Steven Covey, John Maxwell, Chris Brady, Orrin Woodward, and the list goes on. They are also learning from the audio CDs that they get each week talking about leadership skills, financial management, time management, relationship skills, etc. Videos that come out monthly on the above topics, and monthly leadership seminars that are accessible all over the USA and Canada. When you understand that in order for you to be successful you need to spend some quality time learning first, you are half way there.

 

E – Leaders are EMOTIONALLY in control. We as leaders need to let our logic lead and not our emotions. If you are ever let your emotions lead you, I am sure you can tell me some good stories about the roads you really didn’t want to go down after looking back and seeing where you’ve been. If we want the best out of life we need to first logically decide where we are headed and how we are going to get there. Leaders don’t do things on a whim. They check their emotions and logically plan. Make sure you’re in control of your emotions.

 

A – Leaders must APPRECIATE where they are. If you appreciate where you are in your life’s journey you will stand out more and people will be more attracted to you. Who wants to have a leader that is not appreciative? Who wants to have a leader who is miserable and is always in a bad mood? This kind of “leader” obviously does not appreciate where they are. As a leader, I very much appreciate where I am because I am surrounded by good people who want to do better for themselves, make more money, get out of debt, spend more time with their family, and be their own boss. I inspire people but seeing people change for the better inspires me.

 
D – Leaders are OK with DELAYING. Have you ever heard of delay gratification? Well, leaders are the best at practicing delayed gratification. Think about the Network Marketer. It takes time to build his / her business. In the beginning they put a lot of work into their business and work very hard, but once they get things going they are starting to make a very good income. That income didn’t start right away. It took time for it to build up. They were delaying their income because they knew if they put in the time in the beginning the gratification (lucrative income) would come later.

 

The future is yours….claim it today!!

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